Just A Little Inspiration :)

Anonymous asked: I grew very close to a group of people,one of which I'm dating. But they're all a year ahead and now freshmen in college. I thought I was gonna be ready for them to leave and to carry on and be okay but I'm just not. I miss them all so much and they kept me going through last year. My boyfriend is in Boston and I came up to visit him but saying bye again literally had me bawling,I didn't think it would be so hard. I was wondering if you had any ideas. I'm tired of feeling like this all the time.

Well first off, if they are really your friend then they’ll always be there for you. Just try to stay in touch. After high school, usually you loose touch with most of the people you went to school with. It happens. Secondly, I know that long distant relationships are really hard and they suck. You just have to ask yourself a question, is it worth it? You might be in love with him, or just have strong feelings but long distant relationships aren’t for everyone. Another question is, do you think your relationship with him will continue for the next several years? You are still in high school? Rarely do people find high school sweet hearts. It won’t be the end of the world to end the relationship with him, you WILL find more guys, plus this is your time to have fun and enjoy yourself you have your whole life to date. If it’s meant to be, it’ll find its way to work out. I am not telling you to break up with him, just consider what would be best for the both of you. (if you have more questions, you can fan mail me and ill respond to them when i can :) )